Thursday, November 02, 2006
Dating Interview and Halloween Update

News

St. Louis is America's most dangerous city. Birmingham, AL made the list at number six. I go there several times a year. Now I know to be a bit more careful, at least.

Dating Interview #1

I'm starting a new little segment thingy that I will reguarly post: dating interviews.

Until further notice, my interviewees will be female. Why, you may ask? Well, that's because it seems that young men nowadays can't ask a girl out without making an ass out of themselves. So, all of you single guys out there: pay close attention!

My first interviewee is Jen. She is 18 years old.

1.) What are the most important qualities of a serious relationship to you?

I think it's when you are to a point where you can seriously trust one another with the important things in life. Where they can be there for you when you need them or vice versa. And just understanding ... not rushing anything. But just being there.

2.) What qualities (physical, emotional, and mental) do you find disturbing in potential dates?

Well how many babies you want, what's your view on different races AND how you view women.

3.) What is the one thing you reallywant in a relationship?

Love (and respect I think falls into that).

4.) What are reasons that you would give for breaking up with someone who was over the moon about you?

Well are they stalking me?!? If so, that would be a good reason to break up with someone then I would slap them with a restraining order. Also controlling. I am not the type of person who goes out and doesn't tell anyone. I'm pretty loyal to start with but if you get on me if I look at another man. You will be looking at my foot. Dumbass.

5.) How soon is too soon for:

A. Kissing.

I'm a fan of kissing on the cheek for awhile. Once again ... is the guy being a gentleman about it or a horny dog? If he's the latter, ew ... get away!.

B. Sex.

... Well I'm a strong proponent of no sex until marriage but if the hormones are too strong to ignore to last until the wedding night, don't do it on the first date. Or the second. Try 6 months. That way you know the person is in it for the long haul and not just because they want you for sex.

C. Moving in together

Well in my religion it's a sin to live with someone you're not married too but perhaps buying a house or what not, when you're engaged. That's pretty romantic.

D. Marriage.

Well there should be a period when you are dating, then you become engaged then you get married. This should be no less than 12 months and no more than 5 years. If it's longer than 5 years. Get out. LOL.

E. Kids.

After marriage, of course!

6.) What's the perfect date, in your opinion?

LOL, I'm such a romantic ... dinner or someplace to get coffee.

Halloween

Halloween was okay. I was a witch, as I said and I think I looked quite cool, considering I just threw it together that day.

Visited with old friends for awhile, then took Emily and Dale to my grandmother's so she could get some trick-or-treaters, then went back to Emily's house where they put in An American Haunting, and I began to fall asleep, so I had to go home.

So yeah, I accomplished only about half of what I set out to do that night, but it wasn't so bad.


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